Traveling with car in Jakarta usually only mean 1 thing: traffic jam. Good thing we are already so used to it that it didn’t bother us as much. We usually spend traffic jam time chatting about anything and nothing too important.
So there we were, talking about future, our future, from one thing jumps quickly to another, nothing in specific really. We were discussing about future home and how come we haven’t found a house yet? *a little frustated*. J expressed how he wants to have a secret sanctum basement, yeah-like-superhero-secret-type-of-room where he can watch movie or play his playstation with killer sound system and LCD. Basically a room for doing all kind of male stuff, whatever that means.
I did not point out that he spends too much time with his playstation because he already know it. So i just nod in-whatever-makes-you-happy-baby agreement. He is a lot like me in that way, the more people told him not to, the more he want to. hah! talk about karma. hehehhe
While he talks about this big home he would love us to have, I’m more focused on the kitchen set, how the decoration would be, the garden, etc. And ooohhh i’m in searching for that perfect black bag, something more visible in near future.
We talked about wedding plan. Do we want a party? Not really, we both hate parties. Do we have a non-party option? Not really, parents will not be happy. Grandmas will be furious. Do we have enough budget for party? where? when? who should we invited? really close family & friend only? 200 pax? Can we size down to 100pax? Not possible, big family. Will people get offended if they don’t get invited? Will the priest marry us if we never show up at the church? What church? Papers? Souvenirs? argh! that’s too much for my brain! Note: consider eloping without telling anyone. Thank God i got our honeymoon plan sort out already *evil grin*
The conversation shift over to cars and we let our imagination run wild with the most amazing car we would buy if we can ever afford it, and then as quickly jump to other topic etc, etc you got the point.
Just when we paused for a while, this is what we see in front of us that makes both of us cracked up together.
SABAR.

Sabar donk kalo blum punya rumah - ntar juga punya (amin)
Sabar donk kalo blum merit - ntar juga merit (point yg lebih cocok dibilangin ke orang-orang jahil yg-suka-nanya2-kapan-loe-merit-terus2an).
Mobil baru apaan? kan udah punya atuh, don’t be greedy.
Sabar donk kalau blum bisa beli inih-ituh, travelling ke sanah-sinih - ntar juga kesampean sedikit demi sedikit walau ga semua.
One by one okehh?
I just hope i wont be carried away wanting all the things that’s not necessarily needed and forget what is truly important in life. Because that would be sucks.
Jadi inget lagunya Madonna coz i’m a material girl living in a material world. *joget-joget*